“Epictetus said that if someone resists what is clearly true, then it is not easy to devise an argument to persuade him to change his mind. This is due neither to the man’s strength or the teacher’s weakness, but instead because once someone has been assailed and hardens to stone, how could anyone prevail upon him with reason?
Men are hardened to reason in two ways: one is the petrification of thought; the other comes from shame, whenever someone is deployed in battle to such a degree that he will not acknowledge what is obvious or depart from his fellow combatants. Most of us fear the necrosis of our bodies and we will do anything to avoid having this happen in anyway; but we don’t think at all about the mortification of our mind. By Zeus, if a man is disposed in such a way concerning the mind itself that he can’t follow any argument or understand anything, we believe that he is ill. But if shame or self-regard hardens a man, we still persist in calling this strength!”
[The Discourses - 1.5]
Translation by Sententiae Antiquae.
Ideally, we would make up our minds through rational discourse. But in practice, people tend to form beliefs and tenaciously cling to them, even to the point of absurdity. This of course creates a great deal of unnecessary conflict.
ReplyDeleteAnother Greek to remember is Cephalus. In Book I of the Republic, Socrates challenges his conception of justice. Instead of continuing the discourse, he simply leaves to make sacrifices to the gods, allowing Polemarchus to take over. I always saw this as a retreat, an avoidance of any challenge to his assumptions.
The response of withdrawal or stonewalling to defend one's assumptions is all too common. It takes discipline to critically examine one's beliefs, and not everyone is willing or able.